So, unless by some obscene miracle Andrew has Saturday off, I have an extra ticket to the concert this weekend that I can't even give away. Who would've thunk that it would come to this? I'm tempted to go out to the bars on Friday night and kidnap one of these young university boys, force him to be my boyfriend for the day . . . TAKE THE TICKET!! IT's FREE! Ah, those were the good old days, huh? When I could be counted on for some good kidnapping stories if nothing else.
Seems most heinous not to use the ticket at all, I don't mind paying for it and giving it away, as long as someone gets to enjoy it . . . but to pay for it and then have nothing happen as a result, just seems wrong, a little cold. Of course then I'll have the full ticket, not just a stub, as a souvenir of what is surely to be the most fantastic event I've ever attended. But still, 'tis a shame. I don't know that I'm up to kidnapping a boy though . . . maybe a girl?
I'm not a big Stones fan. I think I've said that before, SEVERAL times. But everytime I hear Our Lady Peace or The Tragically Hip I freak out with the excitement of the thing. And yes, I do want to be able to say I saw The Stones . . . THE ROLLING STONES . . . I mean, it's THE ROLLING STONES, not the tribute band, the real deal. The opportunity will never present itself again, it's now or never. So yeah, even though I'm not their biggest fan, I'm excited about seeing Mick and the boys too. The emotion in that crowd is going to be so overwhelming, all ages, amazing. Finally, something huge and rather than watch the clips on tv, I'm going to be in it.
God there's nothing like a concert. Years ago at Magnetic Hill, that weekend concert with so many acts . . . Heart, Pat Benetar, Foreigner, Lynard Skynard and scores of others . . . it was overwhelming. When Foreigner was on stage I had this completely unexpected reaction, pure emotion, tears I couldn't hold back dripping out underneath dark sunglasses. Me and some stranger I met, from Doaktown, having the same overwhelming "Oh My God!" experience, hands waving in the air, singing at the top of our lungs, over our tears, instant bonding.
That's what I love about concerts. That's what people who've never been to a rock concert don't understand -- the bonding process. You get in the crowd, touching shoulders, perfumes mixing, different walks of life . . . but you all know every lyric to the songs, every beat, and that's enough . . . that's all there is at the rock show, nothing else matters. Society, class structure, all that stuff falls by the wayside, it's about the music, (and sometimes the drugs) nothing else matters. You find yourself laughing and dancing with strangers who feel like best friends. It's natural. It's a high that sweeps you away, whether you're actually inhaling or not.
A lot of people are afraid at the massiveness of this -- 85,000 people (not gonna be that many) my mother top of the heap, scared to death for us . . . of what? That the earth is gonna open up and swallow us? I don't know. How many people went to see the Pope? Did anyone die? It's a rock show for godsake! Rock 'n Roll, baby! Old style. The love and joy in that field is going to be something to behold, something to be apart of. The most amazing thing I've ever had the opportunity to partake of in my life so far . . . and my mother wants me to stay home.
When I think about that last concert, the one with Foreigner, the drunkeness that started Friday afternoon and didn't end until Sunday night. The recklessness. The chance encounters. Let alone the camping for chrissake, 28 year old woman alone in her tent, passing for 22, surrounded by morons . . . I was living in dangerous times and didn't even know it, didn't even care. At least this time there'll be none of that reckless foolishness, no arguing, no drinking even . . . it's all about enjoying the show, remembering the show, not the fights at the beer tent or the cute boys from Halifax or any of that crazy stuff that clouded the last concert. I can't even remember all the acts from that weekend, bailed after Skynard did two or three songs. I do remember Foreigner though. Fun stuff.
Haven't really been to that many big concerts. John Mellencamp at Maple Leaf Gardens. I've been more of a club girl than arena. But one of the things I wrote on my list a couple of years ago, when I decided I was going to start living differently, focusing on me and doing the things I want, was concerts. I almost went to the Sars concert in Toronto, big regret that I didn't. No more regrets. If the earth swallows us whole, Mom, well, so be it.
Mood: nostalgic
Drinking: a little cheap Chilean red
Listening To: Our Lady Peace, Innocent
Hair: tickling my shoulders
Wednesday, August 31, 2005
A Dollar Short
It's almost 5 pm and I'm done, can't work anymore today, yesterday, I don't think. The new email worked, some tweaking, but not bad. Positive feedback immediately from some readers/ contributors. Will be better when the new site is ready too.
Cooking a few chicken wings now, gonna have some salad, a glass of wine (which will probably knock me on my ass). First foodstuff since peanut butter fix in the wee hours. Probably left it too late, not hungry anymore, but I forgot, got into the zone and couldn't get out, emails flying back and forth from home base. Problems to be dealt with. Fixed up now for the most part.
Damn hyper throughout most of the afternoon, that coffee must be good. Yawns starting to come on now, but mustn't lie down before appropriate bed-like time or I'll be up all night again.
Lots of rain today and the air is bad, can feel it in my fingers, wrists, neck. Looks like a pleasant forecast for the weekend though, for the concert. Yay! Air traffic being routed overhead today. Planes are huge, flying low to land in Moncton, shooting right over my roof.
Mood: pretty decent
Drinking: water for hydration
Listening To: Kid Rock, Forever
Hair: completely undone
Cooking a few chicken wings now, gonna have some salad, a glass of wine (which will probably knock me on my ass). First foodstuff since peanut butter fix in the wee hours. Probably left it too late, not hungry anymore, but I forgot, got into the zone and couldn't get out, emails flying back and forth from home base. Problems to be dealt with. Fixed up now for the most part.
Damn hyper throughout most of the afternoon, that coffee must be good. Yawns starting to come on now, but mustn't lie down before appropriate bed-like time or I'll be up all night again.
Lots of rain today and the air is bad, can feel it in my fingers, wrists, neck. Looks like a pleasant forecast for the weekend though, for the concert. Yay! Air traffic being routed overhead today. Planes are huge, flying low to land in Moncton, shooting right over my roof.
Mood: pretty decent
Drinking: water for hydration
Listening To: Kid Rock, Forever
Hair: completely undone
Blog Day 2005
In honour of Blog Day 2005 I'm supposed to recommend five new Blogs different from my culture, point of view, attitude, etc. I'm not a hundred per cent certain that all of these qualify, but since I do read them and they don't belong to the usual suspects who hang around this place, here goes:
William Gibson's Blog it's sporadic, but hey, he's writing, we know how that gets.
My Boring Ass Life, Kevin Smith's Online Diary -- I enjoy Kevin Smith, not everyone does I know, but I get a kick out him, out of his movies.
Back-to-Iraq 3.0 -- I've been reading Christopher's blog for years, before he was getting any legitimate freelance work, when it was totally independent journalism.
An Ontarian in Newfoundland -- I surfed into this one day not long ago, quite by accident, and now I find myself checking everyday. I feel like we share something in common maybe, having recently relocated myself, though not as far, or maybe it's just interesting to see this new perspective, I dunno.
Scribbling Woman -- She's out of Saint John, got some press awhile back and I've been reading her ever since.
Mood: is it almost bedtime?
Drinking: coffee
Listening To: crows
Hair: going frizzy in the dampnesss
William Gibson's Blog it's sporadic, but hey, he's writing, we know how that gets.
My Boring Ass Life, Kevin Smith's Online Diary -- I enjoy Kevin Smith, not everyone does I know, but I get a kick out him, out of his movies.
Back-to-Iraq 3.0 -- I've been reading Christopher's blog for years, before he was getting any legitimate freelance work, when it was totally independent journalism.
An Ontarian in Newfoundland -- I surfed into this one day not long ago, quite by accident, and now I find myself checking everyday. I feel like we share something in common maybe, having recently relocated myself, though not as far, or maybe it's just interesting to see this new perspective, I dunno.
Scribbling Woman -- She's out of Saint John, got some press awhile back and I've been reading her ever since.
Mood: is it almost bedtime?
Drinking: coffee
Listening To: crows
Hair: going frizzy in the dampnesss
Hell on Earth
Is everyone on crack? Or is it just me? I don't mean that I'm on crack, obviously. I mean is there something wrong with me or is everyone else on crack? Some of these things . . . I really should know by now . . . awww shit, just when I was all set to ream on some people I get a lovely email thanking me for being me . . . God help me, I think this might be the one that kills me.
Mood: bleary-eyed, must be time for another pot of coffee
Drinking: the final remnants of the ginger beer, blech
Listening To: Bif Naked, I Love Myself Today
Hair: do i have hair?
Mood: bleary-eyed, must be time for another pot of coffee
Drinking: the final remnants of the ginger beer, blech
Listening To: Bif Naked, I Love Myself Today
Hair: do i have hair?
An Unscheduled Break
Ohhh, this just gets better and better. This happened the other night too and I went to bed in the frustration of it all.
Every friggin' morning at 4:30 my Internet connection disappears. I mean disappears completely. I get booted off and can't get back on. Aliant obviously takes this time to do work on the system or something . . . obviously, right? I mean why else would this continue to happen? Surely it is not the hand of God come to drive me even further up the wall than I am already. Surely I am an insignificant speck of dust undeserving of this kind of messing around. Surely.
Well dammit! I'm not going to bed this time. I'm waiting it out. Yes, this Jamaican Ginger Beer is THAT good. I am energised, charged, ready to proceed . . . and pissed off to the max. Of course I need an Internet connection to proceed . . . can't publish the thing unless I'm online, can't email the appropriate parties, can't do anything only write crazy blogs to post later.
Mood: pissed
Drinking: the jamaican ginger beer still
Listening To: the hum of the computer and little else
Hair: half up, half down
Every friggin' morning at 4:30 my Internet connection disappears. I mean disappears completely. I get booted off and can't get back on. Aliant obviously takes this time to do work on the system or something . . . obviously, right? I mean why else would this continue to happen? Surely it is not the hand of God come to drive me even further up the wall than I am already. Surely I am an insignificant speck of dust undeserving of this kind of messing around. Surely.
Well dammit! I'm not going to bed this time. I'm waiting it out. Yes, this Jamaican Ginger Beer is THAT good. I am energised, charged, ready to proceed . . . and pissed off to the max. Of course I need an Internet connection to proceed . . . can't publish the thing unless I'm online, can't email the appropriate parties, can't do anything only write crazy blogs to post later.
Mood: pissed
Drinking: the jamaican ginger beer still
Listening To: the hum of the computer and little else
Hair: half up, half down
Another Break
My body hates me. Arthritis flaring in fingers, wrists, ankles, knees, neck and let us not forget the spine. Nothing like some good aching in the vertebrae to propel you forward in your work.
Have I mentioned how much I loathe Internet Explorer? No. Well I do. I hate it big style. But I can't do the bnm website in Firefox because the software is incompatible. And using Explorer is a nightmare. The program keeps timing out, changes aren't taking, I continually have to log out and log back in . . . it's driving me a little nuts. Tasks that should only take five minutes are taking 20. My patience is wearing thin. These things will get better (I think, I hope) when the design switches . . . soon. But for now, I go crazy.
Still . . . I go, I continue. Time to stretch and perhaps slip into jammies, but no bed for me just yet.
Mood: headachy
Drinking: Jamaican Ginger Beer
Listening To: a raccoon in the garbage bin and the train whistling through town
Hair: coming undone
Have I mentioned how much I loathe Internet Explorer? No. Well I do. I hate it big style. But I can't do the bnm website in Firefox because the software is incompatible. And using Explorer is a nightmare. The program keeps timing out, changes aren't taking, I continually have to log out and log back in . . . it's driving me a little nuts. Tasks that should only take five minutes are taking 20. My patience is wearing thin. These things will get better (I think, I hope) when the design switches . . . soon. But for now, I go crazy.
Still . . . I go, I continue. Time to stretch and perhaps slip into jammies, but no bed for me just yet.
Mood: headachy
Drinking: Jamaican Ginger Beer
Listening To: a raccoon in the garbage bin and the train whistling through town
Hair: coming undone
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Another All-Nighter
Just taking a break, not having a Kit Kat, ingesting some peanut butter for protein energy. Purchased wine earlier, if I were smart I would've also purchased whiskey or brandy or something to help me get through this long night. Something to spike my coffee. Wine doesn't cut it in that department, though a glass with dinner was not unpleasant. Am not going to bed until work is done, could be awhile . . . but at least I probably won't miss the garbage truck in the morning.
Registrations are flooding in for my writing workshop, freaking me out big time. Les keeps emailing me everytime someone signs up. I've heard from him three times in the past couple of hours. If this works, they may want me to come back . . . to hit the Access Centre circuit even . . . how utterly bizarre. So far I know none of the people who have registered. They're coming from all over Miramichi City and even Doaktown, it's really weird. My brother-in-law overheard people talking about me at the Irving -- and NOT making fun either, talking about me seriously, like a person from "away" who is really supposed to know what they're talking about. See, I knew people thought I went back to Ontario after the club closed. Told ya.
In other news, I've got an extra ticket to the concert of a lifetime at Magnetic Hill this weekend that I can't even give away -- 85,000 people is NEVER gonna happen, I'm predicting 60,000. I am starting to get excited finally. Listening to the Hip earlier, they're gonna be awesome. After I see them I could totally go home a happy girl. Though I am curious to see just how bad Keith Richards looks in real life.
Mood: bright-eyed, still, for now
Drinking: coffee, strong and black
Listening To: Billy Joel, You May Be Right
Hair: pulled back for serious business
Registrations are flooding in for my writing workshop, freaking me out big time. Les keeps emailing me everytime someone signs up. I've heard from him three times in the past couple of hours. If this works, they may want me to come back . . . to hit the Access Centre circuit even . . . how utterly bizarre. So far I know none of the people who have registered. They're coming from all over Miramichi City and even Doaktown, it's really weird. My brother-in-law overheard people talking about me at the Irving -- and NOT making fun either, talking about me seriously, like a person from "away" who is really supposed to know what they're talking about. See, I knew people thought I went back to Ontario after the club closed. Told ya.
In other news, I've got an extra ticket to the concert of a lifetime at Magnetic Hill this weekend that I can't even give away -- 85,000 people is NEVER gonna happen, I'm predicting 60,000. I am starting to get excited finally. Listening to the Hip earlier, they're gonna be awesome. After I see them I could totally go home a happy girl. Though I am curious to see just how bad Keith Richards looks in real life.
Mood: bright-eyed, still, for now
Drinking: coffee, strong and black
Listening To: Billy Joel, You May Be Right
Hair: pulled back for serious business
Tuesday, August 30, 2005
Rain
The students are here. One day they weren't and the next they were. Half a dozen charred mattress remains surrounded by orange pilons in the residence parking lot. Are the fire department investigating? Why is the area cordoned off? People everywhere in the street, asking directions, greeting long lost friends. You can tell the first year kids. There's fear in their eyes. They don't know anybody, don't know why they are here. Some of them have parents by their side, doing the tour. Prices at the Save-Easy have taken the Fall leap, who knew they could go even higher? Many of the cheaper generic brands have disappeared completely. It's all brand name now. I can't bear to pay eight bucks for a little package of coffee I can get in Miramichi for $4.75.
Rain again. I should be out in it where Callum would be, feeling my hair soak through, the water running off the tip of my nose, the chill after, the roughness of the towel. But I feel so far away from that poor Irish Catholic boy, I don't want to empathise, to wear his skin. He's stopped talking to me anyway, gone into himself again, treating me just like any of the other girls. Of course, the girls have tons to say, tonnes! But it's all so terrible. Oh the things this boy does to them, the way he treats them . . . how am I supposed to redeem such a character?
Mood: restless
Drinking: concha y toro
Listening To: Guns 'n Roses, Sweet Child O Mine
Hair: having a great hair day, long and loose, yet not too wild and frizzy
Rain again. I should be out in it where Callum would be, feeling my hair soak through, the water running off the tip of my nose, the chill after, the roughness of the towel. But I feel so far away from that poor Irish Catholic boy, I don't want to empathise, to wear his skin. He's stopped talking to me anyway, gone into himself again, treating me just like any of the other girls. Of course, the girls have tons to say, tonnes! But it's all so terrible. Oh the things this boy does to them, the way he treats them . . . how am I supposed to redeem such a character?
Mood: restless
Drinking: concha y toro
Listening To: Guns 'n Roses, Sweet Child O Mine
Hair: having a great hair day, long and loose, yet not too wild and frizzy
Different Day, New Stuff
I tried all day yesterday to extricate myself from work to run to the Save-Easy for essential items (garbage bags, coffee, cream, veggies), pick up the mail, and get some printer ink. I couldn't get away from work though, couldn't, couldn't, couldn't. I've got so much to do it seems. I can't just take a week off and do nothing and not pay a HUGE price later . . . and this summer I've taken two weeks, one for Stacy's wedding, one for the Maritime Writers' Workshop, now I'm paying the piper. Buried to my head and shoulders in press releases and documents, not even bnm stuff for the most part.
Adding new projects to my plate too. And before you say anything, yes, I know I'm busy and I'm looking at a super busy year of bnm stuff (changes are in the air), WFNB stuff, Sackville Writers' Group stuff . . . even Frye Fest stuff, plus my own personal stuff (that IS a lot of stuff) but money talks and I'm being summoned, what can I do? I need the cash. I cannot pay the bills AND maintain my wine habit PLUS buy all the shoes and dvds I desire -- who can live like this? I needed another paying gig and one fell into my lap, so I'll take it. Sleep is over-rated really. Long as you get a few hours here and there you can survive for many months, certainly until spring.
In other news, I've got a new blog on the go for bnm. Bnm has been without a blog since the Mighty crew decided they wanted to focus the blog on Miramichi only. Not being in Miramichi I haven't been contributing, so now I've got my own to play with. Maybe that will cut down on some of my blogging here, so you all will be better able to keep up with me.
Mood: blah, grey day
Drinking: tea, black
Listening To: Led Zeppelin, Communication Breakdown and also fire trucks (again) university students like to set things on fire . . . is my town getting younger or am I getting older?
Hair: thirsty
Adding new projects to my plate too. And before you say anything, yes, I know I'm busy and I'm looking at a super busy year of bnm stuff (changes are in the air), WFNB stuff, Sackville Writers' Group stuff . . . even Frye Fest stuff, plus my own personal stuff (that IS a lot of stuff) but money talks and I'm being summoned, what can I do? I need the cash. I cannot pay the bills AND maintain my wine habit PLUS buy all the shoes and dvds I desire -- who can live like this? I needed another paying gig and one fell into my lap, so I'll take it. Sleep is over-rated really. Long as you get a few hours here and there you can survive for many months, certainly until spring.
In other news, I've got a new blog on the go for bnm. Bnm has been without a blog since the Mighty crew decided they wanted to focus the blog on Miramichi only. Not being in Miramichi I haven't been contributing, so now I've got my own to play with. Maybe that will cut down on some of my blogging here, so you all will be better able to keep up with me.
Mood: blah, grey day
Drinking: tea, black
Listening To: Led Zeppelin, Communication Breakdown and also fire trucks (again) university students like to set things on fire . . . is my town getting younger or am I getting older?
Hair: thirsty
Monday, August 29, 2005
Dreams
I dreamed about my cousin Stacy last night. Not the one on Dad's side of the family. Not my notorious sidekick. The other one. The guy who lives in Calgary. My cousin on Mom's side of the family. It's a bit unusual to have two cousins named Stacy . . . it's even more unusual to have two named Stacy Underhill. Yes. My mother's sister married an Underhill, so I've got two first cousins named Stacy Underhill, same spelling, same everything. In another twist, both their middle names start with the letter D . . . Stacy Dora . . . Stacy Douglas . . . And they are the same age, were born the same year. Douglas is about a month and half older than me, Dora is a month and half younger than me. They can be a bit like peas in the pod when they get together. Names are an important piece of our identity and different ones bring out different characteristics, so they share a lot of the same character traits. Have had similar experiences. It's almost like they're siblings, twins even. Yes, it is kind of bizarre.
Anyway, Stacy Douglas was in my dream last night. He had come for a visit at my parents' house. He looked like he did the year we graduated high school, young and thin, before the gym and Alberta Beef calendar. I had the sense that something was wrong but he insisted there wasn't, kept saying he just popped by to hang out. He was just here last fall for the first time in something like 18 years, I couldn't understand what had brought him back so soon. We went out to eat at a restaurant I've never been to before, a restaurant that maybe doesn't exist. It was in a lodge or something, big dining room, lots of wood, very rustic. My niece, Anna, was running around the dining room playing, driving the waitresses crazy. Her parents weren't there, she was on her own. When she saw me she came over and I got her to sit with us and ordered her something to eat.
Stacy chitchatted about silly things like "how's the weather" and "any fish going" but he had this intense look in his eyes. I kept asking him what was wrong but he would just smile and say nothing. Most of the time he was quiet (and he's not a quiet boy) studying me it seemed. This really bothered me but I was busy with Anna, getting her fed. She had come to the restaurant with someone who was working in the kitchen. Mom? Bonnie? I don't know. But when we went to leave I asked one of the waitresses what I should do with Anna, should she go back in the kitchen. The waitress said the person in the kitchen had been sent to another restaurant, wouldn't be back today and the waitresses couldn't look after her because they would be too busy. "You'll have to take her," she said and handed me a diaper bag. I scooped Anna up, turned and Stacy was gone.
Then I woke up.
Mood: fuzzy about the edges
Drinking: tea
Listening To: Peaches & Iggy Pop, Kick It
Hair: loosely knotted
Anyway, Stacy Douglas was in my dream last night. He had come for a visit at my parents' house. He looked like he did the year we graduated high school, young and thin, before the gym and Alberta Beef calendar. I had the sense that something was wrong but he insisted there wasn't, kept saying he just popped by to hang out. He was just here last fall for the first time in something like 18 years, I couldn't understand what had brought him back so soon. We went out to eat at a restaurant I've never been to before, a restaurant that maybe doesn't exist. It was in a lodge or something, big dining room, lots of wood, very rustic. My niece, Anna, was running around the dining room playing, driving the waitresses crazy. Her parents weren't there, she was on her own. When she saw me she came over and I got her to sit with us and ordered her something to eat.
Stacy chitchatted about silly things like "how's the weather" and "any fish going" but he had this intense look in his eyes. I kept asking him what was wrong but he would just smile and say nothing. Most of the time he was quiet (and he's not a quiet boy) studying me it seemed. This really bothered me but I was busy with Anna, getting her fed. She had come to the restaurant with someone who was working in the kitchen. Mom? Bonnie? I don't know. But when we went to leave I asked one of the waitresses what I should do with Anna, should she go back in the kitchen. The waitress said the person in the kitchen had been sent to another restaurant, wouldn't be back today and the waitresses couldn't look after her because they would be too busy. "You'll have to take her," she said and handed me a diaper bag. I scooped Anna up, turned and Stacy was gone.
Then I woke up.
Mood: fuzzy about the edges
Drinking: tea
Listening To: Peaches & Iggy Pop, Kick It
Hair: loosely knotted
Sunday, August 28, 2005
On the Edge
I cooked a roast and baked potatoes for supper . . . then couldn't wait for it to finish cooking because I was starving to death, ate a sandwich to tide me over, which of course ruined my appetite and I couldn't eat anything I cooked. I really need to plan my meals better, hire a personal chef, buy some f-ing fruit and veggies so I can eat when I'm hungry without cooking, something . . . oh well, all the more leftovers for the rest of the week, right?
I put in On the Edge awhile ago . . . just for a moment I told myself, just a wee break from computer land . . . watched the whole thing again. I've lost track of how many times I've seen this movie. It's Irish, about suicidal youth in a mental institute. I love Cillian Murphy's character, Jonathon. His sarcasm is fantastic. It hooks you right from the first shot.
It's a funeral and the priest is waiting to start the service. A man, obviously a grieving relative, holds up a finger indicating to give it another minute. We hear the church doors open and slam. Cillian strides down the aisle, walks up to the coffin, stands at the end of it, where the head of the body would be. Just stands there for a second, building suspense, then knocks on the coffin, puts his ear close to the wood as if listening for a response.
"Still dead," he says and swaggers back down the aisle, leaves the church, puts on one of those hats with the ear flaps that my five year old nephew wears, gets on a bicycle and rides away, no hands while he lights a smoke, while Smashing Pumpkins, 1969, plays in the background and the opening credits roll. It's bizarre and only gets more bizarre and I absolutely love it.
The movie has serious subject matter but it's really funny. Better than Girl, Interrupted. The only thing that bugs me about it is they've got an American actor playing an Irish part and his accent is pretty terrible.
Mood: this would be the manic part of my week, i feel a full blown dose of Sunday Night Anxiety coming on
Drinking: water
Listening To: David Bowie, The Man Who Sold the World
Hair: dammit! why is it so hard to find a new do?
I put in On the Edge awhile ago . . . just for a moment I told myself, just a wee break from computer land . . . watched the whole thing again. I've lost track of how many times I've seen this movie. It's Irish, about suicidal youth in a mental institute. I love Cillian Murphy's character, Jonathon. His sarcasm is fantastic. It hooks you right from the first shot.
It's a funeral and the priest is waiting to start the service. A man, obviously a grieving relative, holds up a finger indicating to give it another minute. We hear the church doors open and slam. Cillian strides down the aisle, walks up to the coffin, stands at the end of it, where the head of the body would be. Just stands there for a second, building suspense, then knocks on the coffin, puts his ear close to the wood as if listening for a response.
"Still dead," he says and swaggers back down the aisle, leaves the church, puts on one of those hats with the ear flaps that my five year old nephew wears, gets on a bicycle and rides away, no hands while he lights a smoke, while Smashing Pumpkins, 1969, plays in the background and the opening credits roll. It's bizarre and only gets more bizarre and I absolutely love it.
The movie has serious subject matter but it's really funny. Better than Girl, Interrupted. The only thing that bugs me about it is they've got an American actor playing an Irish part and his accent is pretty terrible.
Mood: this would be the manic part of my week, i feel a full blown dose of Sunday Night Anxiety coming on
Drinking: water
Listening To: David Bowie, The Man Who Sold the World
Hair: dammit! why is it so hard to find a new do?
Seasons Twist
My sleepy little town is starting to wake up. Lots of drunken carrying on in the street last night. Much whooping coming from houses across the way. Young men struggling with dressers and mattresses in various yards all afternoon. A steady stream of people to the landlord's door wanting to view other apartments he has in town, picking up keys, signing leases . . . but still no sign of my housemates . . . methinks the walls are way too thin for a pack of twenty-something housemates . . .
Every morning I nearly jump out the window when Jacques is getting dressed. My bedroom shares a wall with his closet. The scraping of the hangers as he looks for a shirt provides quite a jolt at 6 a.m. Still, I could live with that, it isn't so bad, when we're here alone . . . one person isn't very loud usually. But four people is a different beast. Four youngin's . . . well, we'll have to see.
I don't want to work today. Want to go outside and walk around, see what's new and exciting . . . find the Catholic Church . . . I know there's one here someplace. Go buy an ice cream and sit by the swan pond. I wanted to go out and have breakfast on the sidewalk at cafe. I wanted to go to the market at the civic centre, grab a coffee and stroll the boardwalks at the Water Fowl park. I wanted to take my notebook and lay down some sights, sounds, smells . . . Yes, I'm aware it's Sunday and those are all appropriate Sunday type activities, but I'm got H2 SUT people on my back (still) and bnm has got to look alive soon in order to make them go away. So, I work. Though I'd rather be drinking margaritas and eating nachos on a deck somewhere with a fabulous view.
Mood: bubbly
Drinking: tea, organic pekoe, black
Listening To: Violent Femmes, Blister in the Sun
Hair: googling new dos
Every morning I nearly jump out the window when Jacques is getting dressed. My bedroom shares a wall with his closet. The scraping of the hangers as he looks for a shirt provides quite a jolt at 6 a.m. Still, I could live with that, it isn't so bad, when we're here alone . . . one person isn't very loud usually. But four people is a different beast. Four youngin's . . . well, we'll have to see.
I don't want to work today. Want to go outside and walk around, see what's new and exciting . . . find the Catholic Church . . . I know there's one here someplace. Go buy an ice cream and sit by the swan pond. I wanted to go out and have breakfast on the sidewalk at cafe. I wanted to go to the market at the civic centre, grab a coffee and stroll the boardwalks at the Water Fowl park. I wanted to take my notebook and lay down some sights, sounds, smells . . . Yes, I'm aware it's Sunday and those are all appropriate Sunday type activities, but I'm got H2 SUT people on my back (still) and bnm has got to look alive soon in order to make them go away. So, I work. Though I'd rather be drinking margaritas and eating nachos on a deck somewhere with a fabulous view.
Mood: bubbly
Drinking: tea, organic pekoe, black
Listening To: Violent Femmes, Blister in the Sun
Hair: googling new dos
That Boy!
I have done the unspeakable. The one thing I was told NOT to do by my psychic sometimes side-kick. A most heinous crime any way you look at it. But gosh darn it! I just couldn't help myself. I am weak. That's all there is to it. Weak.
It all started when I went searching for a song called God Kicks . . . I've only ever seen it online one time and it was gone so fast I couldn't download it (back in dial-up days) . . . I heard it on one of my imported Irish films, On the Edge, starring you guessed it, my boy . . . Cillian Murphy. And whenever I think about Cillian I begin the never-ending search for a copy of Disco Pigs . . . and usually I NEVER find anything, the thing is always out of stock . . .
But tonight on Amazon.ca (somebody slap me for even going there, I do know better, really I do) there it was . . . a pre-order for October . . . Disco Pigs Special Edition!! ONLY $16.95! I almost wet my pants.
You see before 28 Days Later, Batman Begins and Red Eye . . . before anyone even knew who Cillian was (and some still don't) . . . way back in the last century, early 90's, I saw Disco Pigs and knew this boy was something special. I've wanted to own this movie since way back then and I've never been able to connect with a copy . . .
So, before I knew what happened it was done. Ordered. Will be shipped upon release. It and another Cillian film released this spring that I don't have yet, Bitter Harvest. I am a bad, bad girl. And what is this thing I have for celebrities who marry their school sweethearts? Jon Bon Jovi, Cillian Murphy . . . it's all a little bizarre, don't ya think?
Mood: lusting after blue-eyed boys
Drinking: water
Listening To: Sex Pistols, God Save the Queen
Hair: still checking the magazines for a new do
It all started when I went searching for a song called God Kicks . . . I've only ever seen it online one time and it was gone so fast I couldn't download it (back in dial-up days) . . . I heard it on one of my imported Irish films, On the Edge, starring you guessed it, my boy . . . Cillian Murphy. And whenever I think about Cillian I begin the never-ending search for a copy of Disco Pigs . . . and usually I NEVER find anything, the thing is always out of stock . . .
But tonight on Amazon.ca (somebody slap me for even going there, I do know better, really I do) there it was . . . a pre-order for October . . . Disco Pigs Special Edition!! ONLY $16.95! I almost wet my pants.
You see before 28 Days Later, Batman Begins and Red Eye . . . before anyone even knew who Cillian was (and some still don't) . . . way back in the last century, early 90's, I saw Disco Pigs and knew this boy was something special. I've wanted to own this movie since way back then and I've never been able to connect with a copy . . .
So, before I knew what happened it was done. Ordered. Will be shipped upon release. It and another Cillian film released this spring that I don't have yet, Bitter Harvest. I am a bad, bad girl. And what is this thing I have for celebrities who marry their school sweethearts? Jon Bon Jovi, Cillian Murphy . . . it's all a little bizarre, don't ya think?
Mood: lusting after blue-eyed boys
Drinking: water
Listening To: Sex Pistols, God Save the Queen
Hair: still checking the magazines for a new do
Saturday, August 27, 2005
Saturday Six #72
From Patrick's Place, play along if you like:
1. What is your current desktop picture? What made you select it?
I do not have a current desktop picture because those things tend to use too much juice, slow the system down . . . however there is one I throw up there from time to time when I need extra inspiration.
It makes me all warm and fuzzy inside. Aren't you inspired?
2. A close friend who you consider to be up to date on fashion suggests that you should update your look and offers to pay for a session with an experienced hairstylist you've never dealt with before. Knowing that it's free, would you go?
Absolutely. And I would let them do whatever the hell they wanted to me and never complain, not once.
3. When you do look in a mirror, what is the first thing you usually look at?
It depends upon the reason for the mirror gaze. Am I checking to make sure I'm not falling out all over the place? Am I washing my face? Seeing how big my butt looks in those pants? . . . You know, it depends on the purpose, I'm not in the habit of checking myself out without a reason.
4. Take this quiz: Which Bugs Bunny character are you?
Wile E. Coyote!
You scored 57 Aggression, 71 Sophistication, and 71 Optimism!
You are intelligent, sophisticated, and the physical personification of
the can-do attitude. No matter how many times something blows up in
your face (figuratively or literally) or prized project collapses
around you, you will pick yourself up and try, try again. There is a
good chance that you are very skilled in problem solving and would
probably make a fine engineer. Your main weaknesses (and this is likely
obvious to everyone but yourself) are your overconfidence and complete
lack of perspective. When you inevitably fail at a task (you can�t
possibly achieve all of the lofty goals you set for yourself),
you tend to take it personally. If you are not careful, you can become
thoroughly obsessed with what is not really a very meaty goal. Try
taking a step back from time to time and figure out for yourself if it
is really worth it, or if your talents could be best put towards a more
rewarding goal. Also, your desire for things to work out the way you�ve
planned can make you a bit gullible.
Link: The Which Looney Tune Are You Test written by coolguy3000 on OkCupid Free Online Dating
5. What label seems to describe you the best as a whole?
Ah gee, I don't like labels . . . way too hard for my swirling Gemini mind to narrow down to a single thing . . . open to suggestions though. Go ahead. Label me. I dare you.
6. READER'S CHOICE QUESTION #60 from Stacy: Is there a specific person that you credit with your successes? and HOW did they help you?
There have been some influences for sure . . . but credit? That's tough. I would have to credit myself for being just enough of a rebel that I've always gone my own way no matter what anyone else thinks . . . and even if it sooo wasn't the right way.
Mood: hungry
Drinking: tea, black
Listening To: Leonard Cohen, You Know Who I Am
Hair: considering pictures from magazines
1. What is your current desktop picture? What made you select it?
I do not have a current desktop picture because those things tend to use too much juice, slow the system down . . . however there is one I throw up there from time to time when I need extra inspiration.
It makes me all warm and fuzzy inside. Aren't you inspired?
2. A close friend who you consider to be up to date on fashion suggests that you should update your look and offers to pay for a session with an experienced hairstylist you've never dealt with before. Knowing that it's free, would you go?
Absolutely. And I would let them do whatever the hell they wanted to me and never complain, not once.
3. When you do look in a mirror, what is the first thing you usually look at?
It depends upon the reason for the mirror gaze. Am I checking to make sure I'm not falling out all over the place? Am I washing my face? Seeing how big my butt looks in those pants? . . . You know, it depends on the purpose, I'm not in the habit of checking myself out without a reason.
4. Take this quiz: Which Bugs Bunny character are you?
Wile E. Coyote!
You scored 57 Aggression, 71 Sophistication, and 71 Optimism!
You are intelligent, sophisticated, and the physical personification of
the can-do attitude. No matter how many times something blows up in
your face (figuratively or literally) or prized project collapses
around you, you will pick yourself up and try, try again. There is a
good chance that you are very skilled in problem solving and would
probably make a fine engineer. Your main weaknesses (and this is likely
obvious to everyone but yourself) are your overconfidence and complete
lack of perspective. When you inevitably fail at a task (you can�t
possibly achieve all of the lofty goals you set for yourself),
you tend to take it personally. If you are not careful, you can become
thoroughly obsessed with what is not really a very meaty goal. Try
taking a step back from time to time and figure out for yourself if it
is really worth it, or if your talents could be best put towards a more
rewarding goal. Also, your desire for things to work out the way you�ve
planned can make you a bit gullible.
Link: The Which Looney Tune Are You Test written by coolguy3000 on OkCupid Free Online Dating
5. What label seems to describe you the best as a whole?
Ah gee, I don't like labels . . . way too hard for my swirling Gemini mind to narrow down to a single thing . . . open to suggestions though. Go ahead. Label me. I dare you.
6. READER'S CHOICE QUESTION #60 from Stacy: Is there a specific person that you credit with your successes? and HOW did they help you?
There have been some influences for sure . . . but credit? That's tough. I would have to credit myself for being just enough of a rebel that I've always gone my own way no matter what anyone else thinks . . . and even if it sooo wasn't the right way.
Mood: hungry
Drinking: tea, black
Listening To: Leonard Cohen, You Know Who I Am
Hair: considering pictures from magazines
Friday, August 26, 2005
Gun Play
4.
At age eighteen, Katt escaped murder.
A jealous boyfriend stood five feet in front of her with a loaded double barrel shotgun, safety off, aimed at her chest. Katt held her breath and waited for the bang. She stood like an ice sculpture, paralysed and cold, only her eyes betraying her fear. A friend struck the boyfriend from behind and wrestled the gun away from him. The gun went off in the tussle. Katt lived to hear the shot. She raced into the black night and flagged down the first passing car. The guys in the old Malibu drove her home without questions, and she thanked God for saving her before collapsing into sleep.
-- Excerpt from Katt's Lives
By age 16, the gunman has been dating one of my best friends for at least one year, probably closer to two. About six weeks before they hook up, I kiss him in the back seat of a Camaro while parked at the dump waiting for bears. He wants to do more, but I go home. Despite a few phone calls and chance meetings, we never get close again. It was one night, a couple of hours, nothing more. He seems like a nice guy. I like him. And when he starts dating my friend, I'm happy for her. She finally got a good one, I think. He brings her roses and little gifts for no reason. Their song is "I Just Called to Say I Love You" by Stevie Wonder . . . because that's what he does, just calls to tell her he loves her. It's serious. He gives her a promise ring. They talk about getting married after high school. He seems like a good boyfriend, the perfect boyfriend.
The six of us, three couples, go everywhere together. We party, see movies, play pool, dance, nobody makes plans on their own, we stick together. My role in the group is as mediator. When couples fight I negotiate a peace treaty. Everyone comes to me to dump their problems. Because I am a good listener. Because I'm always willing to help compose the love letters that will put them back in each others good graces. Because I have a knack for seeing both sides to an issue and offering practical advice. Because anything said in confidence, stays in confidence. I know everyone's dirt, and that seems only natural. I hope by being a good listener, being helpful, someday someone will listen to me, someday someone will be supportive of me. Do unto others seems logical.
When the gunman starts showing up at my house after fighting with my friend, I think nothing of it. I listen. I advise. I tell nobody he dropped by. I treat him the same as everyone else. They start fighting more. He shows up a lot. I think they are going through a rough patch, they are on the verge of breaking up but maybe I can help save their relationship somehow. I think it is a coincidence when he shows up on a school night when I'm off doing my own thing and I accept his offer of a ride home.
I think I'm being a good friend by listening, by helping him to realise what a great girl he has in my friend. I think I can fix things. I want to help so much and I'm so naive that even when my mother questions his motives I shrug her off as being paranoid. Almost every night of the week I run into him on my own. And on the weekends I see him with the rest of the group. But even still, the night he pulls me close and kisses me comes as a complete shock.
Both hands on his chest, I push him away. What are you doing?! And then he confesses. Lied . . . never liked her . . . lied . . . only went out with her to be near you . . . lied . . . gave her gifts to show you how it could be with me . . . lied . . . not fighting, never fought . . . lied, lied, lied . . . just wanted to be with you . . . lied . . . all of it just to be with you . . . lied for years . . . for you.
Shock. Sick in my stomach. Wind knocked out of me, like a deflated balloon. What to do with this? Why would anyone do this? How can I live with this? And I can't breath, and he's crying and the windows are steamed in the spring rain and I feel trapped in this bright cave of too white leather, and he's begging. Please . . . please . . . I've done so much to show you . . . please . . . just give me one night . . . one chance . . . please.
And I don't know what to do. I can't process. I feel dirty. I feel like I've done something wrong. I should've known. I should've guessed. I'm so fucking stupid! I'm so god damned fucking stupid! I'm so fucking, fucking stupid! What the hell is wrong with me? And my tears are hot and angry . . . I don't feel the same way about you . . . don't want to be with you . . . I love my boyfriend . . . This is wrong . . . It's not right . . . I have to tell her . . .
And he goes poker straight, lays a big hand on my thigh and squeezes a little too tight, voice low and calm . . . She won't believe you . . . I'll say you're lying . . . that you made it all up . . . you're the one who makes up stories, writes the poems . . . nobody will believe you . . . you'll lose her and him and the others too . . . you can't tell . . . you'll end up alone . . . if you tell, people will get hurt . . . there's no reason to tell anyone . . . I made a mistake . . . I'll make it up to her . . . you'll see . . . don't cry, it's going to be okay . . .
I want to believe him. I want to believe it's all a mistake, he lost his head for a minute is all . . . nobody dates someone else for that long just to get to the person they really want . . . just to get to ME . . . that's crazy, just crazy.
I get out of the car, go into my house and straight to my room. I do what I do best. I keep my mouth shut, tell nobody, pretend nothing happened. I begin the process of rationalising . . . people say things when they're drinking that they don't mean . . . people say things when they're high that don't make any sense . . . he didn't mean it . . . it doesn't make sense . . . he was drunk or high or both . . . just forget about it . . . ignore it and it'll go away.
Months pass and he stays away from my house, isn't showing up in the middle of the week when I'm off doing my loner thing. Things seem really good with his girlfriend, my friend. The incident fades, seems to mean less and less as each day goes by. I feel relief. I feel like I can relax again. I'm so melodramatic sometimes, I make more out of things than they deserve. I need to relax, stop being so serious.
School's out for summer and we're partying at the dead end of our road. Car stereos blast AC/DC, Platinum Blonde, Def Leppard and in an odd twist, Ricky Scaggs. We pass around bottles of Hermit's Wine, swill cases of Alpine and drink quarts of Royal Reserve straight, no chaser. I'm wearing the crop top I got for my birthday. It's white with capped sleeves. On the front are three grey rabbits lined up in a row and on the back are their bunny behinds with puffy white tails. The tee ends just above my belly button. I'm also wearing my favourite pin-striped jeans, the ones with the zippered pockets and the tapered leg. They have a little lycra in them and look like a second skin. My boyfriend likes this outfit, it turns him on. I like this outfit too because it's very comfortable to wear unlike some of my other stiff denim and frilly Sweet Baby Jane blouses. This is an outfit for playing and I like to play. I can climb fences, sit yoga style on the roof of a car, run from the police, jump into my boyfriends arms and wrap my legs around his waist . . . without constraint, as if I am wearing nothing at all.
This night when I'm wearing my bunny crop top, the passenger door to the camaro is open. The gunman is sitting sideways in the front bucket seat, feet on the ground, with my friend in his lap. They are kissing, have been kissing for awhile. I'm sitting on the runner wedged between the back seat and the front. My boyfriend is standing in front of me talking to me. He leaves to get more beer out of a cooler. While the gunman is kissing my friend, he reaches one arm around the bucket seat and grabs me by the leg. Starts running his hands up toward my crotch. It's chilling. A sharp intake of breath and I jump up and back away from the car. My friend doesn't notice anything, they continue kissing passionately. Her mind is far away. She has her back to me, but over her shoulder he's looking at me. His eyes seem to laugh and he winks. I don't know what to do. Nobody has seen anything. Everyone has seen him kissing her, but if I claim anything has happened to me, they won't believe me. I find my boyfriend and tell him I want to be alone with him, lets leave. He doesn't mind.
It is the summer of secret winking. If I look his way, he winks at me. If I get too close, he touches me, gropes me . . . my breasts, my legs, my butt . . . nothing is off limits . . . if I am alone, I am in danger of having his tongue in my ear or his lips on my neck . . . He takes advantage at every opportunity. I'm too little to stop him and too afraid to tell . . . and nobody sees a thing. I'm going crazy. I don't know what to do. I don't know how to make him stop.
One night I get drunk and blurt the whole story to my boyfriend. He doesn't believe me. I swear it's true, I'm not lying, I'm not being melodramatic . . . I ask him to keep a better eye, to protect me, to watch and see and catch him in the act. He promises me he will, promises me that it will be okay, nothing is going to happen to me on his watch. But he's patronizing me. He thinks I'm exaggerating.
The bad behaviour continues . . . my boyfriend sees nothing. I'm so confused. I don't understand why he is doing this, why he won't leave me alone? I drop hints to my other friend about inappropriate things going on in the group, but she dismisses me . . . I'm the drama queen, I make things up, I usually write them down . . . nobody takes me seriously. It's frustrating. I feel like I'm going crazy. Maybe I am going crazy. Maybe I am making it up. Maybe nothing has happened at all. Wink, wink. Fingers ripping into my hair. Why can nobody see?
Summer turns to Fall and I'm spending more time alone with my boyfriend, avoiding the group altogether because I don't know how to function in it. I'm best friends with the girls at school, I do girl-only things sometimes at home, as long as I'm certain he won't show up, that parents are close by . . . but I'm trying really hard to stay away from group outings and parties.
Until Christmas.
His grandparents have gone to Florida and he's got the run of their house over the holidays. He's having a big party he says. Lots of people. My boyfriend wants to go, says it will be fun, misses hanging out with the others, wants to socialise more . . . and I give in.
It is only the six of us and not a big bash as promised. He is bolder than ever before, getting up right after I do and following me into the kitchen in front of everyone, pressing into me from behind in plain view of his girlfriend sitting on the couch in the living room. If she turns her head, she'll see him whispering into my hair, nuzzling my neck. I'm pinned against the sink and I can't breath, can't get the stench of him off of me. I see our reflection in the window, the huge whites of my eyes, my tight lips. I just want it to end, to be over, whether anyone believes me or not.
My boyfriend walks into the room just as he pulls away. My boyfriend isn't sure what he saw, but thinks maybe he saw something. I'm ready to just tell and be done with it, be thrown out of the group, be friendless, have everyone hate me . . . none of it matters anymore. I'm just so tired of trying to protect myself and never fully succeeding. I'm downing doubles of rye and coke, but I haven't been mixing them, the host has been doing all the bartending, it is only later that I wonder with what ingredients . . .
My face is starting to feel warm. I feel very far away, like I'm just a little speck deep inside this huge cavernous body of mine. My body feels foreign, heavy and light all at the same time. I'm not really here anymore but I don't know where I am. It feels like a long way off.
I find myself being led into the basement. There's a rec room, laundry room, spare beds and a bathroom. My friend is there with me. And my boyfriend . . . And him. But I don't even care that he's there with us, I'm giddy and warm and light. I'm incoherent, not making any sense, words tumble out of my mouth in the wrong order. This is a different kind of drunk. This is new.
We've got beer now and we're going to play caps. And it's only when I see my friend in her bra that I realise it's strip caps and people are losing . . . but I don't seem to be one of them. Am I playing? Am I here? I have a sense like I should care more about these things but I don't. I can't stop laughing and it's nice to be here with my friend and to be so giddy. It's a relief to have this good time together with her after these months of tension. And then the guys leave the room and soon after she says she has to go to the washroom. And I'm alone on the floor in the rec room, green indoor/outdoor carpeting stained with spilled drinks. I try to get up to go find everyone but I can't, my legs buckle underneath me.
And then I hear her yelling and crying, and my boyfriend rushes in and helps me to my feet. We're leaving. But what's wrong? Why is she crying? What is all the yelling about? The other couple comes downstairs. And my boyfriend has me in the hallway. Everyone is standing at the bottom of the stairs, my friend is striking the gunman and screaming. He's shielding his face with his hands. What's happened? She turns and looks at me and spits. He wanted to switch! she screams. I heard him asking if he wanted to swap for tonight, so he could have you. Her eyes are filled with hurt and rage and hate . . . hate for me.
My boyfriend's taking me out, forcibly, dragging me up the stairs. We're leaving and I'm glad. It's all out and over and I'm glad. Everyone hates me and I don't care. My boyfriend knows the truth, he believes me now. It's all over. I feel like I could sleep for a month.
Standing in the doorway putting on my winter boots. They are grey, pull on, Peter Pan style, but lined for winter walking. I see him come out of the basement, walk into the living room, reach under the couch, bring out the gun, come back into the kitchen, cock and point it at us. I watch this happen like a movie in slow motion. I can't understand what I'm seeing. It's like I'm standing outside my body off to the side watching the scene. I watch myself from a safer distance, hand slipped into boyfriend's, face blank, devoid of expression except for the googly eyes glossed with fear.
He's going to kill my boyfriend. Then he can have me. We'll go away in his truck and he will have me. And if the police find us he'll have to shoot me and then himself but it will be okay because first he'll have me and we'll be together at the end like we're supposed to be. This isn't what he wanted. If only I had given him what he wanted, none of this would have happened. It's all messed up and now people have to pay. Someone's going to die. And it's all my fault.
I am frozen. It's a fear unlike anything else. I'm looking down the double-barrel of a shotgun, loaded, cocked, ready to destroy. There is no survival. Guns kill deer and moose and bears . . . and people too. It's over. I'm holding my breath, completely still and silent, without even a twitch. This is how it ends in movies, not here, not in real life. It's some horrible nightmare and I'm going to wake up. WAKE UP!
Friends come out of the basement. There is screaming and crying and the other guy shoos the girls back downstairs after he sees the gun. The gunman isn't spooked by any of it. His eyes are locked on me. He's calm and deliberate. Pull the trigger, claim your prize. It's that simple. He is a hunter and I'm the prey, but my boyfriend is the target. The other guy approaches the gunman from behind, carefully, hands semi-raised in surrender, trying to rationalise and calm, soothe. The gunman allows him to approach, but he doesn't lower the gun, doesn't lower his gaze, holds me with his hazel eyes, probes me, touches me. My skin crawls.
And then the movie moves from slow motion into fast forward. I'm horrified as I watch the other guy lunge for the gun. Oh my God! It'll go off! And in a fraction of a second my boyfriend has opened the door, pulled me outside and we're running for the street. The night is freezing. And dark. And deserted. I expect at any moment to hear shots, to feel hot lead rip into my body. But my ears are full with my pounding heart, jagged breath, I can't hear anything else. My chest hurts from running, from the cold. We run, holding hands, fleeing on foot, not knowing whether to hide or keep running, eyes darting . . . there is nowhere to hide in the snow . . . expecting to hear the truck start behind us, expecting to be run down on the road like porcupine.
And then headlights on me and I'm trying to run out of the way, panicked, into the ditch, get away, get away.
It's okay, it's okay, it's not him, wrong type of headlights, my boyfriend knows cars and he's pushing me to the white line, forcing my arm out, thumb up, this is something I know how to do, this is familar. This is our way out of here. Please, please, please, I beg . . . and the car stops.
I know this car. I've been in this car before, but never with my boyfriend. It's a Malibu. There are four guys, friends of mine. I'm so happy to see them, I start crying, climb into the backseat between two of them. My boyfriend rides up front. The boys are nervous, they don't like my boyfriend because he is from downriver and going with one of their girls. Rightfully, I should be dating one of them. This is what they think. What has he done to her this time? What's wrong with her? And I can't stop crying but still I lie, there was a fight with my best friend, a girl thing is all. Shoulders relax in the front seat. There's no need for counterviolence. I turn around to look out the back window to see if we're being followed. The highway is dark.
At my road the boys want to know if I want a ride all the way home or where I'm going. Here is fine. We'll just get out here. My boyfriend and I huddle under the streetlight. He hugs me and kisses my forehead. We don't know what to do. We left in the middle of a fist fight over a gun. What happened? Is everyone okay? Has he been restrained? Is everyone dead? Is he coming for us right now? We don't know. Can't stand not knowing. Can't stand doing nothing.
We walk to my friend's house, where her sister is babysitting younger siblings. I want her to call his house, ask to talk to her sister, make sure things are okay. I try to be vague but she won't help me until I tell her everything. It's such a relief to speak of it. She calls, but there is no answer. We're worried. Her parents come home. It's obvious I am distressed but we tell them nothing, make light stories to encourage them to stop prodding, insist that I've just been a bad girl, drinking too much and now I'm weepy. Nothing to worry about.
My friend bursts through the front door, wild-eyed, angry, accusing . . . I can't believe you'd come here . . . I can't believe you'd tell them . . . It's not what you think . . . don't listen to her . . . she's a liar . . . he didn't mean to do it . . . she's been teasing him for years . . . And I'm trying to interrupt, trying to tell her they don't know, I didn't tell, I didn't do anything wrong . . . and she's striking at me and pulling my hair, hysterical . . . I don't feel the blows, don't feel anything, numb. My boyfriend is pulling her off me and her sister is telling her parents everything and I get up and walk through the chaos, out the front door into the quiet snow. I start walking home. I don't have a coat. My boyfriend runs and catches up, dresses me, zips me, puts my hand in his pocket and leads me.
One foot in front of the other. That's all I can understand, all I can think about right now. Left, right, left, right, stride, stride . . . home.
I shiver under the covers. My boyfriend can't warm me, can't calm me. I sleep in fits and starts, waking in sudden screams every time a car passes the house. I dream he's out there, with the gun, waiting. I dream he shoots holes through the house, killing my family, my boyfriend, my dog . . . but never me. When everyone is dead he enters the house and finds me quivering in my bedroom closet. Then he makes me his. Terrible nightmares. I'm afraid to sleep alone. My boyfriend wants to sleep on the couch because I keep waking him up and he has to work most mornings. The first night is not the worse, every night is equally bad for many weeks. The nightmares stay with me for years, trail me into early adulthood, once in an odd while still resurface.
At school I am shunned by the girls. They refuse to speak to me, refuse to listen. It's generally agreed upon that I did something to lead him on, that I was trying to steal him away from my friend. For a week I am completely on my own, a true loner, whispered about when people think I can't hear, pointed at, wondered about. I am a freak. I am miserable. I don't want to go to school. Don't want to get out of bed. Don't want to do anything. I'm depressed. Making lists in my notebook of new and inventive ways to kill myself passes the time. Most of the time I wish he had shot me.
My friend breaks up with him within a few weeks of the incident, mostly because her parents forbid her to see him anymore. He is no longer welcome in their home. Her family soon moves and she starts going to another school. My other friend drifts back to me but only after I agree to silence. We will never speak of these things and pretend like nothing ever happened. She's not interested in what happened, doesn't want to hear my side of things. It's a deal I can live with, I'm good at pretending.
The incident slowly fades from public recollection.
Four years pass before I see him again. I have graduated high school and moved away. I come home for a few weeks vacation at my parents. I find myself at a party. I don't know it at the time, but the party is at his new girlfriend's house. I've heard about the new girlfriend, heard they are engaged. But I don't know her, don't realise this is her party. It's an outside party, and it's huge. People are everywhere on the lawn, in the drive, throughout the yard, cars line both sides of the road for a half mile in both directions . . . I'm walking alone, passing through clusters of people, looking for friends.
I pass through some groups and there he is, right in front of me. He's standing, hugging his girlfriend from behind, kissing her ear. He sees me and smiles. A slow grin. Like he's been expecting me. He winks. Whispers something and then leaves her. Starts walking toward me, smiling . . . I turn and bolt, zigzagging through clusters, muttering hello if I recognize people. Every now and then I turn to see where he is and he's still coming. He's tall, I can see his head above most others. I'm trying to walk fast rather than all out run, trying to compress myself into as short a person as I can be so maybe he will lose sight of me amongst all the people.
I'm not watching where I'm going. I run right into a guy I know. We collide and I scream a little. He laughs, thinks it's funny that I'm jumpy and spooked. He's just arrived. He has a car. It's parked down the road. I grab him by the arm, whirl him around and demand that he take me for a ride. I assure him I've scouted the party and there are more happening things elsewhere. I kidnap this man and piss off another girl in the process, but I don't care. I latch on. Taking one final look back I see that he's stopped a few feet from us. His eyes are flashing. His jaw is clenched. For now, I am safe.
I've seen you walk unafraid
I've seen you in the clothes you've made
Can you see the beauty inside of me?
What happened to the beauty I had inside of me?
Mood: dark
Drinking: coffee, black
Listening To: U2, City of Blinding Lights
Hair: blonder than I used to be, but not as naive
At age eighteen, Katt escaped murder.
A jealous boyfriend stood five feet in front of her with a loaded double barrel shotgun, safety off, aimed at her chest. Katt held her breath and waited for the bang. She stood like an ice sculpture, paralysed and cold, only her eyes betraying her fear. A friend struck the boyfriend from behind and wrestled the gun away from him. The gun went off in the tussle. Katt lived to hear the shot. She raced into the black night and flagged down the first passing car. The guys in the old Malibu drove her home without questions, and she thanked God for saving her before collapsing into sleep.
-- Excerpt from Katt's Lives
By age 16, the gunman has been dating one of my best friends for at least one year, probably closer to two. About six weeks before they hook up, I kiss him in the back seat of a Camaro while parked at the dump waiting for bears. He wants to do more, but I go home. Despite a few phone calls and chance meetings, we never get close again. It was one night, a couple of hours, nothing more. He seems like a nice guy. I like him. And when he starts dating my friend, I'm happy for her. She finally got a good one, I think. He brings her roses and little gifts for no reason. Their song is "I Just Called to Say I Love You" by Stevie Wonder . . . because that's what he does, just calls to tell her he loves her. It's serious. He gives her a promise ring. They talk about getting married after high school. He seems like a good boyfriend, the perfect boyfriend.
The six of us, three couples, go everywhere together. We party, see movies, play pool, dance, nobody makes plans on their own, we stick together. My role in the group is as mediator. When couples fight I negotiate a peace treaty. Everyone comes to me to dump their problems. Because I am a good listener. Because I'm always willing to help compose the love letters that will put them back in each others good graces. Because I have a knack for seeing both sides to an issue and offering practical advice. Because anything said in confidence, stays in confidence. I know everyone's dirt, and that seems only natural. I hope by being a good listener, being helpful, someday someone will listen to me, someday someone will be supportive of me. Do unto others seems logical.
When the gunman starts showing up at my house after fighting with my friend, I think nothing of it. I listen. I advise. I tell nobody he dropped by. I treat him the same as everyone else. They start fighting more. He shows up a lot. I think they are going through a rough patch, they are on the verge of breaking up but maybe I can help save their relationship somehow. I think it is a coincidence when he shows up on a school night when I'm off doing my own thing and I accept his offer of a ride home.
I think I'm being a good friend by listening, by helping him to realise what a great girl he has in my friend. I think I can fix things. I want to help so much and I'm so naive that even when my mother questions his motives I shrug her off as being paranoid. Almost every night of the week I run into him on my own. And on the weekends I see him with the rest of the group. But even still, the night he pulls me close and kisses me comes as a complete shock.
Both hands on his chest, I push him away. What are you doing?! And then he confesses. Lied . . . never liked her . . . lied . . . only went out with her to be near you . . . lied . . . gave her gifts to show you how it could be with me . . . lied . . . not fighting, never fought . . . lied, lied, lied . . . just wanted to be with you . . . lied . . . all of it just to be with you . . . lied for years . . . for you.
Shock. Sick in my stomach. Wind knocked out of me, like a deflated balloon. What to do with this? Why would anyone do this? How can I live with this? And I can't breath, and he's crying and the windows are steamed in the spring rain and I feel trapped in this bright cave of too white leather, and he's begging. Please . . . please . . . I've done so much to show you . . . please . . . just give me one night . . . one chance . . . please.
And I don't know what to do. I can't process. I feel dirty. I feel like I've done something wrong. I should've known. I should've guessed. I'm so fucking stupid! I'm so god damned fucking stupid! I'm so fucking, fucking stupid! What the hell is wrong with me? And my tears are hot and angry . . . I don't feel the same way about you . . . don't want to be with you . . . I love my boyfriend . . . This is wrong . . . It's not right . . . I have to tell her . . .
And he goes poker straight, lays a big hand on my thigh and squeezes a little too tight, voice low and calm . . . She won't believe you . . . I'll say you're lying . . . that you made it all up . . . you're the one who makes up stories, writes the poems . . . nobody will believe you . . . you'll lose her and him and the others too . . . you can't tell . . . you'll end up alone . . . if you tell, people will get hurt . . . there's no reason to tell anyone . . . I made a mistake . . . I'll make it up to her . . . you'll see . . . don't cry, it's going to be okay . . .
I want to believe him. I want to believe it's all a mistake, he lost his head for a minute is all . . . nobody dates someone else for that long just to get to the person they really want . . . just to get to ME . . . that's crazy, just crazy.
I get out of the car, go into my house and straight to my room. I do what I do best. I keep my mouth shut, tell nobody, pretend nothing happened. I begin the process of rationalising . . . people say things when they're drinking that they don't mean . . . people say things when they're high that don't make any sense . . . he didn't mean it . . . it doesn't make sense . . . he was drunk or high or both . . . just forget about it . . . ignore it and it'll go away.
Months pass and he stays away from my house, isn't showing up in the middle of the week when I'm off doing my loner thing. Things seem really good with his girlfriend, my friend. The incident fades, seems to mean less and less as each day goes by. I feel relief. I feel like I can relax again. I'm so melodramatic sometimes, I make more out of things than they deserve. I need to relax, stop being so serious.
School's out for summer and we're partying at the dead end of our road. Car stereos blast AC/DC, Platinum Blonde, Def Leppard and in an odd twist, Ricky Scaggs. We pass around bottles of Hermit's Wine, swill cases of Alpine and drink quarts of Royal Reserve straight, no chaser. I'm wearing the crop top I got for my birthday. It's white with capped sleeves. On the front are three grey rabbits lined up in a row and on the back are their bunny behinds with puffy white tails. The tee ends just above my belly button. I'm also wearing my favourite pin-striped jeans, the ones with the zippered pockets and the tapered leg. They have a little lycra in them and look like a second skin. My boyfriend likes this outfit, it turns him on. I like this outfit too because it's very comfortable to wear unlike some of my other stiff denim and frilly Sweet Baby Jane blouses. This is an outfit for playing and I like to play. I can climb fences, sit yoga style on the roof of a car, run from the police, jump into my boyfriends arms and wrap my legs around his waist . . . without constraint, as if I am wearing nothing at all.
This night when I'm wearing my bunny crop top, the passenger door to the camaro is open. The gunman is sitting sideways in the front bucket seat, feet on the ground, with my friend in his lap. They are kissing, have been kissing for awhile. I'm sitting on the runner wedged between the back seat and the front. My boyfriend is standing in front of me talking to me. He leaves to get more beer out of a cooler. While the gunman is kissing my friend, he reaches one arm around the bucket seat and grabs me by the leg. Starts running his hands up toward my crotch. It's chilling. A sharp intake of breath and I jump up and back away from the car. My friend doesn't notice anything, they continue kissing passionately. Her mind is far away. She has her back to me, but over her shoulder he's looking at me. His eyes seem to laugh and he winks. I don't know what to do. Nobody has seen anything. Everyone has seen him kissing her, but if I claim anything has happened to me, they won't believe me. I find my boyfriend and tell him I want to be alone with him, lets leave. He doesn't mind.
It is the summer of secret winking. If I look his way, he winks at me. If I get too close, he touches me, gropes me . . . my breasts, my legs, my butt . . . nothing is off limits . . . if I am alone, I am in danger of having his tongue in my ear or his lips on my neck . . . He takes advantage at every opportunity. I'm too little to stop him and too afraid to tell . . . and nobody sees a thing. I'm going crazy. I don't know what to do. I don't know how to make him stop.
One night I get drunk and blurt the whole story to my boyfriend. He doesn't believe me. I swear it's true, I'm not lying, I'm not being melodramatic . . . I ask him to keep a better eye, to protect me, to watch and see and catch him in the act. He promises me he will, promises me that it will be okay, nothing is going to happen to me on his watch. But he's patronizing me. He thinks I'm exaggerating.
The bad behaviour continues . . . my boyfriend sees nothing. I'm so confused. I don't understand why he is doing this, why he won't leave me alone? I drop hints to my other friend about inappropriate things going on in the group, but she dismisses me . . . I'm the drama queen, I make things up, I usually write them down . . . nobody takes me seriously. It's frustrating. I feel like I'm going crazy. Maybe I am going crazy. Maybe I am making it up. Maybe nothing has happened at all. Wink, wink. Fingers ripping into my hair. Why can nobody see?
Summer turns to Fall and I'm spending more time alone with my boyfriend, avoiding the group altogether because I don't know how to function in it. I'm best friends with the girls at school, I do girl-only things sometimes at home, as long as I'm certain he won't show up, that parents are close by . . . but I'm trying really hard to stay away from group outings and parties.
Until Christmas.
His grandparents have gone to Florida and he's got the run of their house over the holidays. He's having a big party he says. Lots of people. My boyfriend wants to go, says it will be fun, misses hanging out with the others, wants to socialise more . . . and I give in.
It is only the six of us and not a big bash as promised. He is bolder than ever before, getting up right after I do and following me into the kitchen in front of everyone, pressing into me from behind in plain view of his girlfriend sitting on the couch in the living room. If she turns her head, she'll see him whispering into my hair, nuzzling my neck. I'm pinned against the sink and I can't breath, can't get the stench of him off of me. I see our reflection in the window, the huge whites of my eyes, my tight lips. I just want it to end, to be over, whether anyone believes me or not.
My boyfriend walks into the room just as he pulls away. My boyfriend isn't sure what he saw, but thinks maybe he saw something. I'm ready to just tell and be done with it, be thrown out of the group, be friendless, have everyone hate me . . . none of it matters anymore. I'm just so tired of trying to protect myself and never fully succeeding. I'm downing doubles of rye and coke, but I haven't been mixing them, the host has been doing all the bartending, it is only later that I wonder with what ingredients . . .
My face is starting to feel warm. I feel very far away, like I'm just a little speck deep inside this huge cavernous body of mine. My body feels foreign, heavy and light all at the same time. I'm not really here anymore but I don't know where I am. It feels like a long way off.
I find myself being led into the basement. There's a rec room, laundry room, spare beds and a bathroom. My friend is there with me. And my boyfriend . . . And him. But I don't even care that he's there with us, I'm giddy and warm and light. I'm incoherent, not making any sense, words tumble out of my mouth in the wrong order. This is a different kind of drunk. This is new.
We've got beer now and we're going to play caps. And it's only when I see my friend in her bra that I realise it's strip caps and people are losing . . . but I don't seem to be one of them. Am I playing? Am I here? I have a sense like I should care more about these things but I don't. I can't stop laughing and it's nice to be here with my friend and to be so giddy. It's a relief to have this good time together with her after these months of tension. And then the guys leave the room and soon after she says she has to go to the washroom. And I'm alone on the floor in the rec room, green indoor/outdoor carpeting stained with spilled drinks. I try to get up to go find everyone but I can't, my legs buckle underneath me.
And then I hear her yelling and crying, and my boyfriend rushes in and helps me to my feet. We're leaving. But what's wrong? Why is she crying? What is all the yelling about? The other couple comes downstairs. And my boyfriend has me in the hallway. Everyone is standing at the bottom of the stairs, my friend is striking the gunman and screaming. He's shielding his face with his hands. What's happened? She turns and looks at me and spits. He wanted to switch! she screams. I heard him asking if he wanted to swap for tonight, so he could have you. Her eyes are filled with hurt and rage and hate . . . hate for me.
My boyfriend's taking me out, forcibly, dragging me up the stairs. We're leaving and I'm glad. It's all out and over and I'm glad. Everyone hates me and I don't care. My boyfriend knows the truth, he believes me now. It's all over. I feel like I could sleep for a month.
Standing in the doorway putting on my winter boots. They are grey, pull on, Peter Pan style, but lined for winter walking. I see him come out of the basement, walk into the living room, reach under the couch, bring out the gun, come back into the kitchen, cock and point it at us. I watch this happen like a movie in slow motion. I can't understand what I'm seeing. It's like I'm standing outside my body off to the side watching the scene. I watch myself from a safer distance, hand slipped into boyfriend's, face blank, devoid of expression except for the googly eyes glossed with fear.
He's going to kill my boyfriend. Then he can have me. We'll go away in his truck and he will have me. And if the police find us he'll have to shoot me and then himself but it will be okay because first he'll have me and we'll be together at the end like we're supposed to be. This isn't what he wanted. If only I had given him what he wanted, none of this would have happened. It's all messed up and now people have to pay. Someone's going to die. And it's all my fault.
I am frozen. It's a fear unlike anything else. I'm looking down the double-barrel of a shotgun, loaded, cocked, ready to destroy. There is no survival. Guns kill deer and moose and bears . . . and people too. It's over. I'm holding my breath, completely still and silent, without even a twitch. This is how it ends in movies, not here, not in real life. It's some horrible nightmare and I'm going to wake up. WAKE UP!
Friends come out of the basement. There is screaming and crying and the other guy shoos the girls back downstairs after he sees the gun. The gunman isn't spooked by any of it. His eyes are locked on me. He's calm and deliberate. Pull the trigger, claim your prize. It's that simple. He is a hunter and I'm the prey, but my boyfriend is the target. The other guy approaches the gunman from behind, carefully, hands semi-raised in surrender, trying to rationalise and calm, soothe. The gunman allows him to approach, but he doesn't lower the gun, doesn't lower his gaze, holds me with his hazel eyes, probes me, touches me. My skin crawls.
And then the movie moves from slow motion into fast forward. I'm horrified as I watch the other guy lunge for the gun. Oh my God! It'll go off! And in a fraction of a second my boyfriend has opened the door, pulled me outside and we're running for the street. The night is freezing. And dark. And deserted. I expect at any moment to hear shots, to feel hot lead rip into my body. But my ears are full with my pounding heart, jagged breath, I can't hear anything else. My chest hurts from running, from the cold. We run, holding hands, fleeing on foot, not knowing whether to hide or keep running, eyes darting . . . there is nowhere to hide in the snow . . . expecting to hear the truck start behind us, expecting to be run down on the road like porcupine.
And then headlights on me and I'm trying to run out of the way, panicked, into the ditch, get away, get away.
It's okay, it's okay, it's not him, wrong type of headlights, my boyfriend knows cars and he's pushing me to the white line, forcing my arm out, thumb up, this is something I know how to do, this is familar. This is our way out of here. Please, please, please, I beg . . . and the car stops.
I know this car. I've been in this car before, but never with my boyfriend. It's a Malibu. There are four guys, friends of mine. I'm so happy to see them, I start crying, climb into the backseat between two of them. My boyfriend rides up front. The boys are nervous, they don't like my boyfriend because he is from downriver and going with one of their girls. Rightfully, I should be dating one of them. This is what they think. What has he done to her this time? What's wrong with her? And I can't stop crying but still I lie, there was a fight with my best friend, a girl thing is all. Shoulders relax in the front seat. There's no need for counterviolence. I turn around to look out the back window to see if we're being followed. The highway is dark.
At my road the boys want to know if I want a ride all the way home or where I'm going. Here is fine. We'll just get out here. My boyfriend and I huddle under the streetlight. He hugs me and kisses my forehead. We don't know what to do. We left in the middle of a fist fight over a gun. What happened? Is everyone okay? Has he been restrained? Is everyone dead? Is he coming for us right now? We don't know. Can't stand not knowing. Can't stand doing nothing.
We walk to my friend's house, where her sister is babysitting younger siblings. I want her to call his house, ask to talk to her sister, make sure things are okay. I try to be vague but she won't help me until I tell her everything. It's such a relief to speak of it. She calls, but there is no answer. We're worried. Her parents come home. It's obvious I am distressed but we tell them nothing, make light stories to encourage them to stop prodding, insist that I've just been a bad girl, drinking too much and now I'm weepy. Nothing to worry about.
My friend bursts through the front door, wild-eyed, angry, accusing . . . I can't believe you'd come here . . . I can't believe you'd tell them . . . It's not what you think . . . don't listen to her . . . she's a liar . . . he didn't mean to do it . . . she's been teasing him for years . . . And I'm trying to interrupt, trying to tell her they don't know, I didn't tell, I didn't do anything wrong . . . and she's striking at me and pulling my hair, hysterical . . . I don't feel the blows, don't feel anything, numb. My boyfriend is pulling her off me and her sister is telling her parents everything and I get up and walk through the chaos, out the front door into the quiet snow. I start walking home. I don't have a coat. My boyfriend runs and catches up, dresses me, zips me, puts my hand in his pocket and leads me.
One foot in front of the other. That's all I can understand, all I can think about right now. Left, right, left, right, stride, stride . . . home.
I shiver under the covers. My boyfriend can't warm me, can't calm me. I sleep in fits and starts, waking in sudden screams every time a car passes the house. I dream he's out there, with the gun, waiting. I dream he shoots holes through the house, killing my family, my boyfriend, my dog . . . but never me. When everyone is dead he enters the house and finds me quivering in my bedroom closet. Then he makes me his. Terrible nightmares. I'm afraid to sleep alone. My boyfriend wants to sleep on the couch because I keep waking him up and he has to work most mornings. The first night is not the worse, every night is equally bad for many weeks. The nightmares stay with me for years, trail me into early adulthood, once in an odd while still resurface.
At school I am shunned by the girls. They refuse to speak to me, refuse to listen. It's generally agreed upon that I did something to lead him on, that I was trying to steal him away from my friend. For a week I am completely on my own, a true loner, whispered about when people think I can't hear, pointed at, wondered about. I am a freak. I am miserable. I don't want to go to school. Don't want to get out of bed. Don't want to do anything. I'm depressed. Making lists in my notebook of new and inventive ways to kill myself passes the time. Most of the time I wish he had shot me.
My friend breaks up with him within a few weeks of the incident, mostly because her parents forbid her to see him anymore. He is no longer welcome in their home. Her family soon moves and she starts going to another school. My other friend drifts back to me but only after I agree to silence. We will never speak of these things and pretend like nothing ever happened. She's not interested in what happened, doesn't want to hear my side of things. It's a deal I can live with, I'm good at pretending.
The incident slowly fades from public recollection.
Four years pass before I see him again. I have graduated high school and moved away. I come home for a few weeks vacation at my parents. I find myself at a party. I don't know it at the time, but the party is at his new girlfriend's house. I've heard about the new girlfriend, heard they are engaged. But I don't know her, don't realise this is her party. It's an outside party, and it's huge. People are everywhere on the lawn, in the drive, throughout the yard, cars line both sides of the road for a half mile in both directions . . . I'm walking alone, passing through clusters of people, looking for friends.
I pass through some groups and there he is, right in front of me. He's standing, hugging his girlfriend from behind, kissing her ear. He sees me and smiles. A slow grin. Like he's been expecting me. He winks. Whispers something and then leaves her. Starts walking toward me, smiling . . . I turn and bolt, zigzagging through clusters, muttering hello if I recognize people. Every now and then I turn to see where he is and he's still coming. He's tall, I can see his head above most others. I'm trying to walk fast rather than all out run, trying to compress myself into as short a person as I can be so maybe he will lose sight of me amongst all the people.
I'm not watching where I'm going. I run right into a guy I know. We collide and I scream a little. He laughs, thinks it's funny that I'm jumpy and spooked. He's just arrived. He has a car. It's parked down the road. I grab him by the arm, whirl him around and demand that he take me for a ride. I assure him I've scouted the party and there are more happening things elsewhere. I kidnap this man and piss off another girl in the process, but I don't care. I latch on. Taking one final look back I see that he's stopped a few feet from us. His eyes are flashing. His jaw is clenched. For now, I am safe.
I've seen you walk unafraid
I've seen you in the clothes you've made
Can you see the beauty inside of me?
What happened to the beauty I had inside of me?
Mood: dark
Drinking: coffee, black
Listening To: U2, City of Blinding Lights
Hair: blonder than I used to be, but not as naive
Thursday, August 25, 2005
Like, Duh!
No shit!
Mood: a bit snitty
Drinking: coffee, a blend of all the bottoms of various cans, with cream
Listening To: Bon Jovi, Out of Bounds
Hair: loosely pulled back in brown scrunchie
Mood: a bit snitty
Drinking: coffee, a blend of all the bottoms of various cans, with cream
Listening To: Bon Jovi, Out of Bounds
Hair: loosely pulled back in brown scrunchie
Wednesday, August 24, 2005
Belated Saturday Six #71
From Patrick's Place. Play along if you'd like, it's never too late.
1. Other than the "Saturday Six," what weekly or daily memes do you play most often? (Please give a link to that journal.)
None really . . . but I do the occasional quiz from Blogthings.
2. If you could look back at photos you know of that were taken during your childhood, from your first school pictures to snapshots taken ten years ago, which one do you think would be the most embarrassing and why?
It's difficult to say which is more embarrassing, the chubby little kid in the plaid pants . . . or the anorexic twenty-something who's face has sunken into her skull . . . probably the latter.
3. What was the last thing you made yourself do, even though you really didn't want to?
That's tough, cuz if I don't want to do it chances are I won't. Hmmm . . . it was probably something to do with work, interviewing someone or writing a press release or something. I NEVER want to do that stuff, yet I persist.
4. Take this quiz: How do you live your life?
5. What was the last book you started but never finished (aside from any you're currently reading)? Why did you stop reading it?
The only book I've started and never finished, aside from the half-dozen or so I'm slowly getting through now, is Roughing It In the Bush by Susannah Moodie. I've tried many times since Ryerson and failed each time . . . it's just too damned boring, I can't do it.
6. Are you named after anyone? Has anyone ever been named after you?
My middle name is Valerie Anne. The Valerie is after my Aunt Valerie on my mother's side, the Anne is my mother's little bit of rebellion at being forced to name me after my Aunt Valerie . . . I surmise. Nobody has been named after me -- HEY! Why is that?
1. Other than the "Saturday Six," what weekly or daily memes do you play most often? (Please give a link to that journal.)
None really . . . but I do the occasional quiz from Blogthings.
2. If you could look back at photos you know of that were taken during your childhood, from your first school pictures to snapshots taken ten years ago, which one do you think would be the most embarrassing and why?
It's difficult to say which is more embarrassing, the chubby little kid in the plaid pants . . . or the anorexic twenty-something who's face has sunken into her skull . . . probably the latter.
3. What was the last thing you made yourself do, even though you really didn't want to?
That's tough, cuz if I don't want to do it chances are I won't. Hmmm . . . it was probably something to do with work, interviewing someone or writing a press release or something. I NEVER want to do that stuff, yet I persist.
4. Take this quiz: How do you live your life?
| How You Life Your Life |
 You are honest and direct. You tell it like it is. You tend to avoid confrontation and stay away from sticky situations. Your friends tend to be a as quirky as you are - which is saying a lot! Some of your past dreams have disappointed you, but you don't let it get you down. |
5. What was the last book you started but never finished (aside from any you're currently reading)? Why did you stop reading it?
The only book I've started and never finished, aside from the half-dozen or so I'm slowly getting through now, is Roughing It In the Bush by Susannah Moodie. I've tried many times since Ryerson and failed each time . . . it's just too damned boring, I can't do it.
6. Are you named after anyone? Has anyone ever been named after you?
My middle name is Valerie Anne. The Valerie is after my Aunt Valerie on my mother's side, the Anne is my mother's little bit of rebellion at being forced to name me after my Aunt Valerie . . . I surmise. Nobody has been named after me -- HEY! Why is that?
Welcome Back, Blogger
I'm alive. Think I was a little anemic, a bit low on iron, steak and eggs helps, it's not just a breakfast food. So what if it took me all day to straighten out and fly right! I did the interview I was supposed to, the press release is coming out, the other one is gone . . . things are happening, slowly but surely . . . and now that I have some friggin' energy and actually feel like I can stand up without passing out . . . sheesh! Hello fer stuff!
I stumbled out to the bank earlier and discovered I have just enough money to make rent . . . and nothing more . . . I should have a little more . . . has something gone wrong along the way? This is a dilemma. But with a cupboard full of canned goods, at least I won't starve. Thank you Mama!
Saw Ann, a girl from the Sackville Writers' Group, at Jean Coutu . . . it's weird to be running into all these writing girls all of a sudden. First Emily, now Ann . . . this IS really a small town.
Much to do, little time, just thought I'd check in and let everyone know I'm all right.
Mood: sooooo much better
Drinking: coffee, organic light roast with 2% from Bridge Street Cafe
Listening To: Bob Marley, War
Hair: damp and loose
I stumbled out to the bank earlier and discovered I have just enough money to make rent . . . and nothing more . . . I should have a little more . . . has something gone wrong along the way? This is a dilemma. But with a cupboard full of canned goods, at least I won't starve. Thank you Mama!
Saw Ann, a girl from the Sackville Writers' Group, at Jean Coutu . . . it's weird to be running into all these writing girls all of a sudden. First Emily, now Ann . . . this IS really a small town.
Much to do, little time, just thought I'd check in and let everyone know I'm all right.
Mood: sooooo much better
Drinking: coffee, organic light roast with 2% from Bridge Street Cafe
Listening To: Bob Marley, War
Hair: damp and loose
Feverish
I'm not well. Fevered I think, though without the tech there's no way to know for certain. I've had chills since about 9 last night. Had to get my blanket and curl up to watch Stewie on Toon. Family Guy re-runs certainly win over Tommy Lee going to College. Maybe I've got a bug, maybe it's wine withdrawal, maybe this is the crash after the whirlwind . . . I don't know, don't care . . . all I know for sure is that I don't have time for this right now. Need to snap out of it. Too much to do, not enough time.
Mood: head is swimming
Drinking: water
Listening To: Articolo 31, L'italiano medio
Hair: down 'n dirty
Mood: head is swimming
Drinking: water
Listening To: Articolo 31, L'italiano medio
Hair: down 'n dirty
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